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I really like a girl
From a boy of 15.
There’s a girl I really like. She’s different from other girls who I’ve met before. We’re good friends, but sometimes it’s a bit awkward to talk. It’s as if she can’t manage to talk that much any longer. I don’t know what I should do to be with her. I’m thinking that maybe she doesn’t like me.
Hi boy of 15,
It isn’t always that easy to keep a conversation going, and your mind can easily go a bit blank especially when you feel that it’s important to show that you are interesting. The more important it is to find something to talk about, the more difficult it can be. If you are able to relax, the conversation will probably flow more easily. It is important to remember that it’s totally natural that there will be quiet times when you are with good friends, but when you are relaxed and feel secure you don’t notice them so much, and you don’t feel stressed by them. Good friends can sit together in silence without feeling awkward, whereas the same situation can be awkward for people who don’t know each other so well.
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Some people are very talkative and always have something to say, while others are less talkative and prefer to let other people take the lead in conversation. Others are quieter and prefer to sit quietly and listen to what others say. I don’t know what type of person your friend is, but the fact that she doesn’t talk so much is not necessarily because of you. Maybe you can find something to do together, instead of sitting and talking? It is easier to find things to talk about when you do an activity together, for example play a game, go walks, go bowling, go to a youth club, go to the cinema or something similar. It’s also a good idea to be with other friends. Find out what she likes and invite her to do that. This way it will be easier to find out if she likes you and wants to spend time with you. If she wants to join you for different activities then she probably does like you, and if she chooses not to be with you, then it’s probably because she doesn’t like you enough to be with you alone. There’s always a risk that the other person will not have the same feelings for you as you have for them, and there isn’t really anything you can do about it except to be the best version of yourself and a good friend.
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Best wishes,
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