Hi,
It’s not about losing your virginity! It isn’t a good idea to have sex with just anyone. It’s best to save this for the right person, the person you have married and will share the rest of your life with.
Remember, you are valuable and sex is something very personal. By saving sex until it really means something you make it extra valuable. When a person has sex, they give part of themselves to the other person, and it can’t be taken back. It is hard for people to leave a relationship when they have had sex.
We give advice based on the Bible and classic Christian sexual ethics. This means that we believe sex only belongs in the context of a lifelong marriage. When you get married you get the security that is necessary for sex to be something beautiful and intimate, which you don’t share with anyone apart from your marriage partner.