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Confession and forgiveness

Hi, do I have to confess that I’ve fantasised about sex to other Christians, or is it enough to ask God for forgiveness?

Is lust as sinful as having sex?

Hi, I have been thinking about Mat. 5:28 lately. My boyfriend and I wouldn’t have sex before marriage, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t wish to do it, or that...

Is it normal to sweat a lot?

Is it normal to have a problem with sweat?
I get sweat rings under my arms no matter what I do, it just happens even when I’m not stressed. Girl of 14.

I really enjoy sex

I’m a girl of eighteen. I’ve had sex with lots of guys and really enjoy it. I like the excitement of having sex with a new person and I have a great time. Not...

How can I have a good conversation?

Hi, I’m a girl of 16. I like a boy who’s 17. I got to know him because I like him. What can I do to get to know him better?
We’ve talked a little, but I want...

Living together

I can’t find a Bible verse that says that it is sin to live together, so why is it sin?

Dreading middle school

Hi, I am a girl of 13 years old who attends a Christian private school and will start secondary school after the summer. Both Primary school and secondary...

Dizziness during the period

Hi, I had my first period just over a year ago, and in the past six months I’ve often felt dizzy, and I’ve blacked out a couple of times. I’ve never fainted,...

How do I become more outgoing?

How can I be more outgoing?
I’m so shy when I meet new people, and it’s embarrassing! I really hate it. It always takes me a long time to make new friends when...

What does the Bible say about getting married?

Hello. I have read a bit in the Bible, and I think it’s a bit difficult to find out what the Bible actually says about getting married. Is getting married the...

Reasons not to shave down below?

Hi! I’ve got some questions about shaving the private parts. Is it good to shave down there? I don’t have a good way to do it. I have to use a lot of soap for...

Did someone do something illegal to me?

Hi!

Two years ago I was living in a student hostel in Australia. One evening I was out drinking with my friends, it was quite a casual atmosphere and I didn’t...

Want to wear girl's clothes and be a girl

I am fairly certain that I was born in the wrong body. I want to wear girl's clothes and be a girl, but the problem is I don't get my parents' permission to do...

Help with identity and relationships

Hello. I would like help from you in the area of identity and relationships. Hope it is appropriate to write about it here.
I have great difficulty in feeling...

Caught smoking

Hi,
This week I was caught smoking by someone I know. She says I have to tell my parents that I smoke, but I don’t know what to say.

What does it mean to think about someone with lust?

Hi :) I have been thinking a bit about Matt 5:28, about lust. I read an article about this on “itro”, it said that there was a difference between lust and...

Someone I know committed suicide

Someone I know committed suicide and I’ve been thinking a lot about doing it too. But I’m really wondering what will happen if I do take my life, will I go to...

Depressed after my mum died

Hi, I’m in a depression after my mum died. Am I having delusions?

Getting along better with your friend. A recipe?

Hi.

I'm an 18 year old boy and go to a Bible school where I live in, and share a room with someone who was, until recently, my best friend. I get the...

Is it OK to send dirty text messages to a partner?

What do you think about erotic short stories and dirty text messages? Does it mean I am leading my partner into lust? My partner and I have decided wait to have...