Go to result Categories Artikler (28)Besvarte spørsmål (23)Podcast / film (3) Type Article (31)Q & A (23) Theme age of consentbodyboundariesemotionsfaithfalling in lovefriendshiphomosexualitymarriagepubertyrelationshipself-imagesexsinglethe bible "Relationship" Why Did God Create Man and Woman? Kategori: Artikler The Bible says that God created man in his image as man and woman (Genesis 1:27). In this podcast you can hear about why the body is so important and what... Eight Tips for Choosing a Partner Kategori: Artikler A lot of singles want to find someone they can share their lives with. Is it as simple as some think? Not always. When it comes to choosing a partner there are... Real Love Causes Us to Act Kategori: Artikler Real love takes time to build up. We have to choose to actively spend time getting to know the other person. Creative Couples Kategori: Artikler Can sweethearts do anything together apart from kissing and cuddling? Hilde and Vegard have some good suggestions for leisure activities. Finding a Sweetheart Kategori: Artikler Most of us press ‘like’ on Facebook when our friends find a partner. Perhaps we’ve been waiting for these two people to get together for a long time. But... What age can I date? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål How old do you have to be to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend? We argue all the time Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, I’m a boy of fifteen, and I’m dating. It’s actually really nice, but we argue all the time. Have you got any tips about how we can stop arguing so much? Never been in love Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Is it possible not to be able to fall in love? I'll tell you a bit about myself: I guess that I function okay on most scores (not a psychopath for example). I... The Right Person Kategori: Artikler There’s a Norwegian fairy tale called ‘Askeladden’ (the ash lad), in which a seemingly insignificant boy wins both the princess and the kingdom, and they live... Are You in Love With the Right Person? Kategori: Artikler Have you ever been infatuated with someone who wasn’t good for you? I have! In fact, several of them. Where Are the Boundaries? Kategori: Artikler We’ve often dreamt of going on holiday in the sun together. We’ve even booked the tickets, but then cancelled them. How Do I Find That Special Person? Kategori: Artikler How can you find someone who suits you, who is similar, who has the same attitudes and values, who is dreaming about a person like you, and who would value who... How Can a Couple Know If They Are a Good Match? Kategori: Artikler Most of us can be rather preoccupied with finding the right person to marry. But how can we find out if we are a good match? Below are a number of questions... Love Is in the Air Kategori: Artikler When spring arrives, and the birds start to sing, you sense that summer is just around the corner. Love is in the air – spring’s here, and with it dreams of a... Soulmates? Kategori: Artikler There’s no growth without conflict! Romantic ideas often take over when you dream about a romantic partner. How to Find the Right Partner Kategori: Artikler Checklists, analyses, rollercoaster emotions, and devious plans are normal when you are looking for the right partner. Perhaps Ingebjørg’s five tips can help? Flirting With the Girls Kategori: Artikler The Bible has something to teach us about how we should behave towards girls. I don’t want to be the person who hurts someone unnecessarily. Date someone who’s just left another relationship Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Is it a good idea to date someone who broke up with his girlfriend two months ago? Afraid of commitment Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål I’m a guy of 21. There’s a girl I really like, but I’m afraid of committing myself to her. I guess I’m not the only one like this! My mum is a control freak, so... Things for Singles to Remember Kategori: Artikler Here is a little list of things to remember, for the days when you feel your singleness is visible for all to see, and when you feel limited and a failure. This... Ten Good Reasons to Wait With Sex Kategori: Artikler Is sex still worth waiting for? Sixty-one per cent of youths who participated in an American survey said ‘Yes’ it is. Nineteen and Still a Virgin – WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOU? Kategori: Artikler OK, let me explain. At least, I’ll try. Sixty Things to Talk About With Your Partner Kategori: Artikler The time when you are dating is a great time to get to know each other better. We reveal more and more of who we are, what we like and what is important to us... Looking for Mr Right Kategori: Artikler ‘They’re all scumbags’ The Battle for Purity Kategori: Artikler How is it possible to live in purity both in thoughts and actions when your body trembles with a longing for sex? These feelings aren’t wrong, after all it is... The Last Two Weeks Before I Got Married Kategori: Artikler Just now, right before I get married, I would like to talk about some things I wish someone had told me before I entered a relationship. About Sexual Feelings Kategori: Artikler Are sexual feelings sin? Is it OK that I have such a strong desire to sleep with my boyfriend or girlfriend? How can I relate to these feelings? In this article... Wait for Me! Kategori: Artikler ‘Do you think there’s someone out there who hasn’t slept with anyone yet? Do you think there’s anyone out there for me? I really want to be the first one, the... Marrying Someone Who Has Had Sex Kategori: Artikler The thought of having sex before marriage was unthinkable for me. Sex has been, and is, something great, something important and exclusive that I wanted to... Choosing Just One Person for the Rest of Your Life Kategori: Artikler Do you dream of getting married? Lots of people do, and with good reason! To Love Is to Be Vulnerable Kategori: Artikler The fear of rejection is something we can all identify with: fear of not being good enough or fear of not being accepted or valued for who you are, with your... Fourteen years old and wanting to have sex Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, I'm a girl of fourteen, and I have a problem. This weekend I’ll sleep at my boyfriend’s house, and both he and I want to have sex. He is also fourteen and... Stay overnight with my boyfriend? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål I’m a girl of 23 and have chosen not to sleep in the same room as my boyfriend before we get married. He respects this, and he sleeps in the living room when he... Start dating at fourteen? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål I’m not quite sure, but I think a boy in my class likes me. He’s also a Christian. What should I do if he asks me to be his girlfriend? We’re just fourteen. Getting back together with my ex Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi,I’m a girl of seventeen who (together with my boyfriend) decided to split up a few months ago. I regret the decision now, as I’m starting to like him more... A civil or a church wedding? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi,I’m a man of 29. I want to marry my girlfriend, and I’m wondering if there’s anywhere that says that I should get married in a church? I’m also wondering... Dating a non-Christian? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, I’m a Christian girl of seventeen, and I want to ask some questions about dating and relationships.I’ve always gone to normal state schools, and the... Can I share a bed with my girlfriend? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Is it OK to share a bed when I stay overnight with my girlfriend? My boyfriend can be a jerk Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi! Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year. I often get irritated and annoyed as he behaves a bit strangely sometimes. For example, one... Is it wrong to date? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, Is it wrong to date someone if I don’t know whether it will work out or not?(I really love the person!)Anonymous 16 year-old I’ve fallen in love but still miss my ex Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, I’ve got a real problem. My ex boyfriend and I broke up just over four months ago. After that I started a new job, and now I’ve fallen in love again.I... Fear of losing an engaged girlfriend Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Girl 20 yearsMy best friend just got engaged and it makes me feel so alone. Because I just realize more and more that her children will probably be like 10... To set boundaries in a romantic relationship Kategori: Artikler How do you think through this with your girlfriend? Podcast: How to find the right partner Kategori: Podcast / film Checklists, analyses, rollercoaster emotions, and devious plans are normal when you are looking for the right partner. Perhaps Ingebjørg’s five tips can help? Is it OK to send dirty text messages to a partner? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål What do you think about erotic short stories and dirty text messages? Does it mean I am leading my partner into lust? My partner and I have decided wait to have... Lie together during the day? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Is it OK for a guy and a girl to lie together during the day, for example after dinner? Never dated Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, I’m a heterosexual guy of 22. I’ve never had a girlfriend. I don’t know how to get a girlfriend, or how I should approach the whole dating thing.The girls... Dating my friend Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, I’ve got a great friend who I really like, and have started to wonder if we should start to date. A lot of people have asked if we are dating, or are in... I only fall in love with non-Christians, what should I do? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi! I like your website!I’m a single guy, 21 years old. I really love God and want to follow Him with all my heart. In my social circles (Christian) there are... Date a doubtful Christian? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi guys! I really need some advice.There’s a guy who’s interested in me, and I must admit I’m interested in him too. I’m 27 and have never been in a... Podcast: Identity in Christ – Sam Allberry Kategori: Podcast / film Sam Allberry is an English pastor and speaker. In these podcasts he speaks about how as a young man, he was attracted to other men and not to women. He has... Infinite Love Kategori: Artikler The last time I went with my parents to church was when I was fourteen. I got bored, I didn’t understand what the pastor was talking about, and there was no one... How to meet the need for physical contact without it becoming sexual? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hello!I am a Christian girl of 22 and I have never had a boyfriend. I am not in a hurry with this, but does the Bible say it's wrong to dance intimately with... Podcast: The invisible reality of sex Kategori: Podcast / film When two people have sex, very strong emotions are created, and they become emotionally connected on a deep level. Many have experienced that it is hard to...
Why Did God Create Man and Woman? Kategori: Artikler The Bible says that God created man in his image as man and woman (Genesis 1:27). In this podcast you can hear about why the body is so important and what...
Eight Tips for Choosing a Partner Kategori: Artikler A lot of singles want to find someone they can share their lives with. Is it as simple as some think? Not always. When it comes to choosing a partner there are...
Real Love Causes Us to Act Kategori: Artikler Real love takes time to build up. We have to choose to actively spend time getting to know the other person.
Creative Couples Kategori: Artikler Can sweethearts do anything together apart from kissing and cuddling? Hilde and Vegard have some good suggestions for leisure activities.
Finding a Sweetheart Kategori: Artikler Most of us press ‘like’ on Facebook when our friends find a partner. Perhaps we’ve been waiting for these two people to get together for a long time. But...
What age can I date? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål How old do you have to be to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend?
We argue all the time Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, I’m a boy of fifteen, and I’m dating. It’s actually really nice, but we argue all the time. Have you got any tips about how we can stop arguing so much?
Never been in love Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Is it possible not to be able to fall in love? I'll tell you a bit about myself: I guess that I function okay on most scores (not a psychopath for example). I...
The Right Person Kategori: Artikler There’s a Norwegian fairy tale called ‘Askeladden’ (the ash lad), in which a seemingly insignificant boy wins both the princess and the kingdom, and they live...
Are You in Love With the Right Person? Kategori: Artikler Have you ever been infatuated with someone who wasn’t good for you? I have! In fact, several of them.
Where Are the Boundaries? Kategori: Artikler We’ve often dreamt of going on holiday in the sun together. We’ve even booked the tickets, but then cancelled them.
How Do I Find That Special Person? Kategori: Artikler How can you find someone who suits you, who is similar, who has the same attitudes and values, who is dreaming about a person like you, and who would value who...
How Can a Couple Know If They Are a Good Match? Kategori: Artikler Most of us can be rather preoccupied with finding the right person to marry. But how can we find out if we are a good match? Below are a number of questions...
Love Is in the Air Kategori: Artikler When spring arrives, and the birds start to sing, you sense that summer is just around the corner. Love is in the air – spring’s here, and with it dreams of a...
Soulmates? Kategori: Artikler There’s no growth without conflict! Romantic ideas often take over when you dream about a romantic partner.
How to Find the Right Partner Kategori: Artikler Checklists, analyses, rollercoaster emotions, and devious plans are normal when you are looking for the right partner. Perhaps Ingebjørg’s five tips can help?
Flirting With the Girls Kategori: Artikler The Bible has something to teach us about how we should behave towards girls. I don’t want to be the person who hurts someone unnecessarily.
Date someone who’s just left another relationship Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Is it a good idea to date someone who broke up with his girlfriend two months ago?
Afraid of commitment Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål I’m a guy of 21. There’s a girl I really like, but I’m afraid of committing myself to her. I guess I’m not the only one like this! My mum is a control freak, so...
Things for Singles to Remember Kategori: Artikler Here is a little list of things to remember, for the days when you feel your singleness is visible for all to see, and when you feel limited and a failure. This...
Ten Good Reasons to Wait With Sex Kategori: Artikler Is sex still worth waiting for? Sixty-one per cent of youths who participated in an American survey said ‘Yes’ it is.
Nineteen and Still a Virgin – WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOU? Kategori: Artikler OK, let me explain. At least, I’ll try.
Sixty Things to Talk About With Your Partner Kategori: Artikler The time when you are dating is a great time to get to know each other better. We reveal more and more of who we are, what we like and what is important to us...
The Battle for Purity Kategori: Artikler How is it possible to live in purity both in thoughts and actions when your body trembles with a longing for sex? These feelings aren’t wrong, after all it is...
The Last Two Weeks Before I Got Married Kategori: Artikler Just now, right before I get married, I would like to talk about some things I wish someone had told me before I entered a relationship.
About Sexual Feelings Kategori: Artikler Are sexual feelings sin? Is it OK that I have such a strong desire to sleep with my boyfriend or girlfriend? How can I relate to these feelings? In this article...
Wait for Me! Kategori: Artikler ‘Do you think there’s someone out there who hasn’t slept with anyone yet? Do you think there’s anyone out there for me? I really want to be the first one, the...
Marrying Someone Who Has Had Sex Kategori: Artikler The thought of having sex before marriage was unthinkable for me. Sex has been, and is, something great, something important and exclusive that I wanted to...
Choosing Just One Person for the Rest of Your Life Kategori: Artikler Do you dream of getting married? Lots of people do, and with good reason!
To Love Is to Be Vulnerable Kategori: Artikler The fear of rejection is something we can all identify with: fear of not being good enough or fear of not being accepted or valued for who you are, with your...
Fourteen years old and wanting to have sex Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, I'm a girl of fourteen, and I have a problem. This weekend I’ll sleep at my boyfriend’s house, and both he and I want to have sex. He is also fourteen and...
Stay overnight with my boyfriend? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål I’m a girl of 23 and have chosen not to sleep in the same room as my boyfriend before we get married. He respects this, and he sleeps in the living room when he...
Start dating at fourteen? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål I’m not quite sure, but I think a boy in my class likes me. He’s also a Christian. What should I do if he asks me to be his girlfriend? We’re just fourteen.
Getting back together with my ex Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi,I’m a girl of seventeen who (together with my boyfriend) decided to split up a few months ago. I regret the decision now, as I’m starting to like him more...
A civil or a church wedding? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi,I’m a man of 29. I want to marry my girlfriend, and I’m wondering if there’s anywhere that says that I should get married in a church? I’m also wondering...
Dating a non-Christian? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, I’m a Christian girl of seventeen, and I want to ask some questions about dating and relationships.I’ve always gone to normal state schools, and the...
Can I share a bed with my girlfriend? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Is it OK to share a bed when I stay overnight with my girlfriend?
My boyfriend can be a jerk Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi! Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year. I often get irritated and annoyed as he behaves a bit strangely sometimes. For example, one...
Is it wrong to date? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, Is it wrong to date someone if I don’t know whether it will work out or not?(I really love the person!)Anonymous 16 year-old
I’ve fallen in love but still miss my ex Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, I’ve got a real problem. My ex boyfriend and I broke up just over four months ago. After that I started a new job, and now I’ve fallen in love again.I...
Fear of losing an engaged girlfriend Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Girl 20 yearsMy best friend just got engaged and it makes me feel so alone. Because I just realize more and more that her children will probably be like 10...
To set boundaries in a romantic relationship Kategori: Artikler How do you think through this with your girlfriend?
Podcast: How to find the right partner Kategori: Podcast / film Checklists, analyses, rollercoaster emotions, and devious plans are normal when you are looking for the right partner. Perhaps Ingebjørg’s five tips can help?
Is it OK to send dirty text messages to a partner? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål What do you think about erotic short stories and dirty text messages? Does it mean I am leading my partner into lust? My partner and I have decided wait to have...
Lie together during the day? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Is it OK for a guy and a girl to lie together during the day, for example after dinner?
Never dated Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, I’m a heterosexual guy of 22. I’ve never had a girlfriend. I don’t know how to get a girlfriend, or how I should approach the whole dating thing.The girls...
Dating my friend Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi, I’ve got a great friend who I really like, and have started to wonder if we should start to date. A lot of people have asked if we are dating, or are in...
I only fall in love with non-Christians, what should I do? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi! I like your website!I’m a single guy, 21 years old. I really love God and want to follow Him with all my heart. In my social circles (Christian) there are...
Date a doubtful Christian? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hi guys! I really need some advice.There’s a guy who’s interested in me, and I must admit I’m interested in him too. I’m 27 and have never been in a...
Podcast: Identity in Christ – Sam Allberry Kategori: Podcast / film Sam Allberry is an English pastor and speaker. In these podcasts he speaks about how as a young man, he was attracted to other men and not to women. He has...
Infinite Love Kategori: Artikler The last time I went with my parents to church was when I was fourteen. I got bored, I didn’t understand what the pastor was talking about, and there was no one...
How to meet the need for physical contact without it becoming sexual? Kategori: Besvarte spørsmål Hello!I am a Christian girl of 22 and I have never had a boyfriend. I am not in a hurry with this, but does the Bible say it's wrong to dance intimately with...
Podcast: The invisible reality of sex Kategori: Podcast / film When two people have sex, very strong emotions are created, and they become emotionally connected on a deep level. Many have experienced that it is hard to...