Hi. A friend of mine was forced to have sex and the whole neighbourhood, including the church, got to hear about it. The rumour was that she had had sex. Itās...
Hi! I was wondering if itās wrong for a Christian to wear a bikini on the beach? Iāve always done this, and never thought about it as itās so normal. What are...
Hi, Iām a boy of 14, soon 15, and there are some things Iām wondering about to do with homosexuality. I think of myself as a Christian, and Iām active in...
Hi, I have been thinking about Mat. 5:28 lately. My boyfriend and I wouldnāt have sex before marriage, but that doesnāt mean that I donāt wish to do it, or that...
Is it OK to share a bed when I stay overnight with my girlfriend?
Hi, Iām a Christian guy, Iām 16.Iām very aware of not having sex and all that before marriage. I feel like I am in control, and Iāve decided in advance. But...
Is it actually a sin, according to the BIble, to think about having sex, and imagine it? Not with a certain person, but just as a general thought? Sometimes I...
Hi! Iām a Christian guy, and since I went to high school Iāve been interested in other guys. Iāve never let my feelings develop into anything else, and am quite...
Hi, Iām a girl whoās had the same boyfriend for three years now. We have a really healthy relationship built on Christian values. I grew up in a Christian home,...
I canāt find a Bible verse that says that it is sin to live together, so why is it sin?
Iām 19, and engaged! We are both virgins and will wait till marrriage before we have sex. But where are the limits? Weāve agreed not to touch each other, but...
Hello! I am gay and I'm a Christian. As you know, Christians are often not on the side of us gays, so I don't dare say anything about it to my mom or dad. I'm...
Hi. I am asexual and have never had any sexual feelings. Iām fine with that, but I do fall in love with other girls (Iām a girl.) The Bible says it is sin to...
I am a failure. Please donāt tell me otherwise. You donāt know me. What Iām trying to say is that Iām feeling really bad. I just feel so stupid! When I meet new...
Hi, Iām a girl of fifteen. I was fingered, and really regret it! How can I get over it? Is it wrong to be fingered? Is it against what the Bible says?
What do you think about asexuality?
Iām tired of hearing that Iām unique, that God loves me and so on. Iām depressed every day. I thought that I was getting better, and that I was stronger, but I...
I have decided to wait till marriage before I have sex, but Iām wondering about things like lying together on the same bed, kissing and cuddling ā what are the...
Hi, I am a girl about to start in ninth grade after summer. Sometimes I have fantasies about sex, and naked boys. It all started about two years ago, and I want...
It is a bit difficult to explain this. But is it unusual to have no signs of puberty now? I don't feel that my voice has changed and the penis is still small...
Hi, I donāt know if this question is very strange or not. It isnāt so much about the Bible, but about the period. Iām a Christian girl of thirteen, soon...
Hi thereFirst of all, I just want to say that it's so good that you have such a page, really appreciate it. I have a couple of questions:1) Does the Bible say...
I find it hard to know what to say in social situations. How can I start a conversation with it being embarrassing?
Hi. I'm a 17-year-old girl. I have had sex, but I'm not married yet. I hope to marry a Christian man sometime in the future because I am a Christian myself.
Hello!I am a Christian girl of 22 and I have never had a boyfriend. I am not in a hurry with this, but does the Bible say it's wrong to dance intimately with...
Iām not doing so well. Iām in my final year of high school and Iāve tried really hard to get some good friends for years, But no matter how much I take the...
Hi,It says in the Bible that āā¦ if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passionā (1 Corinthians...
I stay on campus at a college, and Iāve got a crush on a guy there. However, a friend says she thinks heās really arrogant. I donāt understand this as he seems...
Iām a 16-year-old girl. Some boys have called me āuglyā several times. I have forgiven them, but their words haunt me all the time, especially when I find out...
Hi. Can we have sex when the woman has her period? Iāve read about it in the Old Testament, but does this just refer to the people of Israel at that time, or...
Hi, I was wondering if you have any arguments against abortion?
Iām 16 years old, and want to wait until Iām married before I have sex. Have you got any advice on how I can do that? I want to be aware of this before I find a...
Hi, I am a 16-year-old guy. Iāve struggled with my sexual orientation for some time, but realise that I have to finally accept that Iām homosexual. I want to...
Hi, Iām a Christian guy and am so happy that I know God, I also have a huge network of Christian friends. However, there are two things I struggle with in life,...
Hi, :-) Iām a girl of eighteen who is soon to get married. Iām wondering if I should shave myself ādown thereā before the wedding. Neither of us have had sex...
Whatās a friend?
The Bible mentions that the body is God's temple, and is it therefore a sin to be fat? I mean since we kind of destroy/poison the temple? Girl 12 years old...
Hi, Iām a girl of 14. My mum and dad are Christians. Iām also a Christian and I go to church every Friday with lots of other youths.Recently Iāve started to...
Iām a 16-year-old Christian girl. I feel like Iām in love with being in love, as they say, and I have to try hard not to be in love all the time. Iāve spent all...
What does the Bible say about BDSM and fetishism?
Hi... I'm wondering if it's normal to want to have intercourse at the age of 13-14? I'm a little embarrassed about it... I don't want children either... I know...
Could it be some kind of nicotine in porn? When I hear about people who are trying to quit smoking, I feel like they have the same problems I do, only mine is...
Hi, Iām getting married next summer and I use the contraceptive pill sold as āDianeā. I want to be sure that this is a combination pill which stops ovulation,...
Iām a 17-year-old guy. Iāve spent a lot of time with a girl for a while now, and we both have feelings for each other. My problem is that she isnāt a Christian.
I wonder where the limits of flirting go? When can you flirt and how do you know for sure that you are being flirted with? What characterizes flirtation? I also...
Hi! Iām a girl of 15 and thereās something Iāve been wondering about for quite a while. Iām a Christian. Thereās a boy who Iāve really got on well with for the...
Hi! Iām a desperate eighteen-year-old girl, and Iām struggling to masturbate! Iāve never done it properly; no matter how much I try it doesnāt feel good. :-(...
Hello boy girl! I have a question for you. I have a boyfriend with a buddy I suspect is interested in me. But I'm very unsure, so I'm asking you for advice. The...
Hi! Me and six other Christian girls want to start a Bible group. Have you any tips?
My partner and I have both got ME. What should we do in terms of getting married and having children?Weāve been talking about a small wedding.
Hi, I think Iām gay! But my problem is telling my mom and dad because they will be upset about it. What would you recommend me to do?
Hi, I am a girl of 13 years old who attends a Christian private school and will start secondary school after the summer. Both Primary school and secondary...
What is petting? Is it sex?
Iām a girl of 12 and Iāve got a boyfriend. When we got together I felt like he wasnāt the right one for me and I started to like someone else. Weāve been...
Is it normal to have a problem with sweat? I get sweat rings under my arms no matter what I do, it just happens even when Iām not stressed. Girl of 14.
Is the girl's pee hole bigger than the boy's? If you know what I mean?
Is diabetes an infectious disease?
I ended up drinking too much at a party (normally I try to avoid parties) but I ended up really drunk. I ended up with my ex girlfriend, she had also drunk too...
Hi, Iām a girl of 12. I donāt have any boobs, but all the other girls in my class do. One time a girl went with small footballs under her jumper, and I looked...
Hello. What is defined as porn? Must it be rough sex, or just a general sex scene? I don't watch porn, but can enjoy sex scenes in movies. Is it just as bad as...
Why is it not okay to say fuck and damn when you are a Christian? These words are not mentioned in the Bible. Is it a sin to say those words? People have...
Is it wrong to snog (make out) in a relationship when you are both Christians?
Hello!Thanks for a great website and good guidance on sex and cohabitation. Very good that some take up these important things on the foundation of Christian...
Hi, I'm a girl of fourteen, and I have a problem. This weekend Iāll sleep at my boyfriendās house, and both he and I want to have sex. He is also fourteen and...
What does the Bible actually say about having a girlfriend or boyfriend? From a boy of 16
Hi,Iām 30 and still single, in fact Iāve always been single.Recently itās become really important for me to find someone. Iāve always wanted to have a...
What should I do if I regret having sex?
I have very low self-confidence. What can I do?
Hi,Iām a guy of 15 and I need some advice about how to make some good female friends, and how to treat them without people thinking that Iām flirting with...
Hi, I had my first period just over a year ago, and in the past six months Iāve often felt dizzy, and Iāve blacked out a couple of times. Iāve never fainted,...
Hi. A girl in my class has become more boyish during the 9th grade, she's cut her hair, uses a boyish style and changed her name and picture on Facebook. Now...
Hi, Iām 19 and have never had sex, until this evening. I had sex but didnāt want to do it. What should I do? Iām feeling really hopeless.
Hi!I think there might be a boy in my class whoās in love with me. Iām not sure if he is, and thatās why Iām writing to you. Do you think he likes me? Iāve...
Hello. A boy I like asked if I could stay over in his house and I said yes. So when I was there, we watched porn, even though I didn't want to.Then he asked if...
How should a Christian relate to alcohol? Is it wrong to taste it at all? It says in the Bible that abstinence is a fruit of the Spirit, and I want to live near...
How can I be more outgoing? Iām so shy when I meet new people, and itās embarrassing! I really hate it. It always takes me a long time to make new friends when...
Hi, I seem to be constantly sad or depressed without knowing why. Why is this?From a guy of nineteen.
Is it weird to think that you want to touch a girl-friend? And is it strange to have sexual dreams about the person you like?
Is it abnormal that a girl of fifteen has never been in love? I canāt remember being in love, although everyone else takes it for granted that Iāve been in love...
Iām a real introvert and I hate it, Iām not extrovert at all. I always hear sermons that say that we have to like the person God has made us to be, but I canāt...
What do you think about erotic short stories and dirty text messages? Does it mean I am leading my partner into lust? My partner and I have decided wait to have...
Hi, Iām a Christian girl of seventeen, and I want to ask some questions about dating and relationships.Iāve always gone to normal state schools, and the...
I think the idea of saving myself sexually for my future husband is really great, and I certainly want to wait till I get married before I have sex.However, I...
Hi! Iām a fifteen-year-old girl, and Iāve never had a boyfriend. I donāt know if I should be ashamed of this, or proud of it, or what? I mean, most people of my...
Hi. I think the girl who Iām in love with is in love with my best friend. What can I do to get it out of my mind?
Hi, Iām a Christian, but I masturbate with a friend from my class. Weāre both mad about girls and want to date a girl later on. My question is, is it wrong to...
Do you have sex when you touch her boobs? I used to think the limit was below the navel, but now I donāt know. I feel like itās wrong/not a good idea...
It says in the Bible that you shouldnāt have a boyfriend or girlfriend of the same sex, or something like that, but what do you do if you are in love with a...
Hi, aĀ lotĀ of Christians say that if you have sex before you are married, you somehow become united to the other person, I think they mean that their souls...
Hi, Iām a 21-year-old bisexual guy, and I want to know how I can get my focus off men. I believe that homosexual sex is wrong and immoral, and at the same time...
I like a boy, but I don't dare talk to the boy I like. What should I do?
Hi, Where in the Bible does it explicitly say that people must be married to have intercourse, and how does the Bible define marriage? Marriage in the Bible...
Hi, I'm a 14-year-old girl and wondering about something. I get dizzy very quickly, especially when I stand up. I feel that my head is buzzing and kind of lose...
Hello,When I lived abroad last year, I was with someone who had been a Christian before but wasn't anymore. I'm a Christian, and he knew where my boundaries...
Hi, I'm a girl wondering what the definition of sex is? Is it morally okay with sucking/licking or fingering/wanking of the other sex? Are you still a virgin...
Hi, Iām a Christian guy of 16. Six months ago I had sex with a girl I didnāt know. She approached me, and I was impulsive, and joined in. I regret it now, I...
I have really bad self-esteem. What can I do?From a girl of 15.
I was wondering how far I can go with my partner, according to the BIble? Where are the limits?
Is it possible not to be able to fall in love? I'll tell you a bit about myself: I guess that I function okay on most scores (not a psychopath for example). I...
Why do people talk about losing their virginity?
Hi! Iāve got some questions about shaving the private parts. Is it good to shave down there? I donāt have a good way to do it. I have to use a lot of soap for...
I like a girl, and she also likes me (weāre almost dating), but in the past few weeks Iāve been very busy, and I think that Iām losing interest. Iāve been in...
Hi, Iām a girl of sixteen whoās just started self-harming. Thereās a long story behind it which I wonāt mention now. I wonder if itās serious? When Iāve seen...
Someone I know committed suicide and Iāve been thinking a lot about doing it too. But Iām really wondering what will happen if I do take my life, will I go to...
Iām a girl of 23 and have chosen not to sleep in the same room as my boyfriend before we get married. He respects this, and he sleeps in the living room when he...
Hello! I am a single 21-year-old boy. I'm a student and I live with good friends and I'm not lonely in the sense that I don't have friends to hang out with, but...
Does the Bible say itās wrong to dance sensually with other guys?
Hi, sometimes I think that it would be nice to have a boyfriend, but if I get one does that mean Iām going against Godās law? From a girl of 14.
Hi, Iām a girl of eleven, Iāve already got big boobs but I donāt want any before Iām twelve, and Iāve never had spots, is there something wrong with me?
Hi, Iām almost eighteen, and had my first period last year, after two to three years of having an eating disorder. After I had my first period my hips and...
Hi boyandgirl,Iām a girl of almost fifteen, and I havenāt got my period yet. Is that normal?
Hey, I'm a 19-year-old guy, and I've come to realize that I have feelings of attraction towards the same gender that I can't shake off.I'm actively working on...
How can I tell my partner that I used to watch porn?
How far can I go without it getting too sexual?? Am single, like girls.
Hi! Iām a girl of sixteen. I am bisexual and these days Iām with a girl who is soon seventeen. All we want is to be together for ever, but we know that we...
Iām a girl of 13. Iām in love with a boy who isnāt in love with me. I feel that he almost doesnāt even know that I exist. I get really sad. I just want to...
Hi,Ā Iām a sixteen-year-old girl and Iām wondering where I can get help with a problem I have.My best friend had sex with her boyfriend (I know that isnāt good...
Iām a girl of fifteen, and Iāve sometimes shaved between my legs, but then Iāve got red spots there. I didnāt use any special cream, or soap, just a razor...
Hi, Iāve got some questions Iād like to ask you!1. What can help during period pains?2. Is it normal to feel that you are bleeding during the period?3.
Iām thinking of giving blood, but I wanted to know what the Bible says about it? Iām thinking of the verse: āThe soul is in the blood.āIs it a good idea...
Iām a guy of 21. Thereās a girl I really like, but Iām afraid of committing myself to her. I guess Iām not the only one like this! My mum is a control freak, so...
Hi. I'm an 18 year old boy and go to a Bible school where I live in, and share a room with someone who was, until recently, my best friend. I get the...
Hi! Iām a girl in her 20s and I feel that I am haunted by my past.When I was younger, I hung around with a group of people, and hardly any of them were...
Hi, Iām a girl of fourteen. I find that I often have a bad conscience, perhaps because I gossip or have bad thoughts about others. Iām trying my best to stop...
How can I improve my reputation, from being the one everyone sees as the drunk to being a good guy? :-)
My best friend has just got a boyfriend. She thinks Iām happy about it, but Iām getting totally fed up hearing about him. I donāt know if itās jealousy or if...
Hi, is it possible to get a bigger penis?From a guy, 15.
I am a Christian and feel a need for physical contact of the opposite sex, is this wrong?
Iāve been thinking a little about Matthew 5:28. Is it wrong for me to look at a guy and think āheās handsomeā, according to the Bible? When I say that, I donāt...
Hi!Ā Two years ago I was living in a student hostel in Australia. One evening I was out drinking with my friends, it was quite a casual atmosphere and I didnāt...
Hi, Iām just wondering about what the Bible says about drinking alcohol? Iām 15 and most of the people in my class drink. Two of my friends in the class donāt...
I worked on Sunday and I wonder if I will go to hell for breaking one of the Ten Commandments?
Iām wondering if itās strange that Iāve never kissed even though Iām fourteen, soon fifteen?From an un-kissed girl
Does it say anything in the Bible about drinking? Is it OK for Christians to drink?
I didnāt know which category to put my question in, so I just tried to do it according to my gut feeling, even though Iām not sure if itās got anything to do...
Hello. I have read a bit in the Bible, and I think itās a bit difficult to find out what the Bible actually says about getting married. Is getting married the...
From a 10 year old girl, my nipples are growing but I havenāt had my period yet. There are some brown stains in my pants, but itās not painful.ANONYMOUS
Hi!Iām wondering if I have to have a Christian boyfriend when Iām a Christian? Thereās a boy I like a lot, and he likes me. Iām just wondering if its OK, to...
Hi ā¦ I love your website ā¦ Iāve got three questions ā¦ 1: Is it wrong to be in love with someone a year older than me? (Iām 14 and heās 15). 2: I want to ask him...
Have you got any tips how I can get a girlfriend?
Hi! Iām wondering if it really is so easy to say that homosexuality is wrong, according to the Bible?Firstly, Jesus never mentions that homosexuality is a...
Hi, I was wondering if I can go to the toilet after taking the morning-after pill, or if I will lose it and have to take another?
Hi,Iām a man of 29. I want to marry my girlfriend, and Iām wondering if thereās anywhere that says that I should get married in a church? Iām also wondering...
Iām not quite sure, but I think a boy in my class likes me. Heās also a Christian. What should I do if he asks me to be his girlfriend? Weāre just fourteen.
How do you know you're gay?
Hi! Iāve been thinking a bit about marriage recently. Iām not going to get married, but I would like to know what the Bible says so that I can know if a...
Hi. Iām a girl of 19, and Iāve had sex with my boyfriend. Iām quite sure that Iām pregnant, as I havenāt had my period. What should I do? I donāt feel ready...
Hi, I wanted to ask a question on this website since itās about Christian values. I am not a Christian, but my boyfriend is a Christian. I respect that and...
Can I use up my sperm production if I masturbate ten times a day every day?
Hi, Girl 15 here. I have some questions I would like you to answer. I've watched porn before and masturbated myself. When I'm done, I feel disgusting. I regret...
Hi. Iāve got a girlfriend, weāve been together about a year. Everythingās fine, apart from her wanting me to put my finger in her bum sometimes. Sometimes she...
Hi, Iām a boy of fourteen. I was just wondering if masturbation is wrong? I donāt watch porn or look at porn magazines. Is it a sin, and should I stop?
Hi!My boyfriend and I are both Christians and we've decided to wait with sex until we get married. He's also very clear about lust and masturbating not being...
I am fairly certain that I was born in the wrong body. I want to wear girl's clothes and be a girl, but the problem is I don't get my parents' permission to do...
Hi, Iām a boy of 14. Iām dependent on pornography and masturbating. Iāve tried to stop many times but I canāt. I also smoke quite a bit. I smoke because itās...
Hi, Iām a boy of fifteen, and Iām dating. Itās actually really nice, but we argue all the time. Have you got any tips about how we can stop arguing so much?
Is it normal to be head over heels in love with a 26-year-old when youāre fourteen?
Is it a sin to look at porn?
Hi, Iām a girl whoās turning fifteen in ten days. I think I like both girls and boys. Iām attracted to girls who are masculine. I also like lesbian sex on...
From a boy of 15. Thereās a girl I really like. Sheās different from other girls who Iāve met before. Weāre good friends, but sometimes itās a bit awkward to...
Hi, Iām a girl of 13. My best friend is much more popular than I am, so I get jealous of her easily. I feel that all the girls and boys like her much more than...
Hi, Iām a guy of twenty and I want to stop watching porn. Iāve been watching it since I was thirteen, but I decided to quit six months ago. I managed to stop...
Hi, Iām a fifteen-year-old girl and I noticed that Paul says in 1 Corinthians 14:35ā36 that girls/women should remain silent in the churches. Why isnāt this...
Girl, 14 years old. Iām having sexual cravings, and Iām starting to feel sick of it; how can I avoid being so perverse or focused on porn? ā¦ help!
Hi, Iām a guy of 16. Iāve never had a girlfriend or been involved with any girls. Iām very curious about women and girls, and would like to see one naked, not...
Can girls and boys actually just be friends? So that neither of them will ever develop feelings for the other?
Hi, Iām a girl of 17 and Iāve got a fantastic boyfriend, weāve been together for eight months. He doesnāt live in Norway, but we are both certain that we have a...
I had sex with my partner eighteen months ago. Iāve asked God to forgive me. What should I say if people ask me if Iāve had sex? Should I say ānoā, since God...
Is it a good idea to date someone who broke up with his girlfriend two months ago?
What happens in your body when you have a period?
Hello. I would like help from you in the area of identity and relationships. Hope it is appropriate to write about it here.I have great difficulty in feeling...
I have had a boyfriend for about 6 months now. We have not had sex, because both of us wish to wait until marriage. We strive to have good boundaries. Where is...
Hi, Iām struggling with a habit of watching pornography and stuff like that at home. I want to give it up and try to keep myself as near celibate as possible...
Hi, Is it wrong to date someone if I donāt know whether it will work out or not?(I really love the person!)Anonymous 16 year-old
Iāve got two questions about alcohol. What does the Bible say about alcohol? How can we see the question about alcohol in relation to different ethical...
Iām a girl of eighteen. Iāve had sex with lots of guys and really enjoy it. I like the excitement of having sex with a new person and I have a great time. Not...
Hi, Iām a heterosexual guy of 22. Iāve never had a girlfriend. I donāt know how to get a girlfriend, or how I should approach the whole dating thing.The girls...
What should I do, Iām twelve and a half and I donāt have any boobs, but I want to have them?
Hi, Iām a girl of eighteen. I was wondering if itās normal to enjoy and get aroused by watching two women having sex, although Iām not a lesbian? I get really...
Hi, this is a question that Iāve been thinking about for a long time. Iām starting to wonder if thereās a boy in my class who likes my friend. I think it seems...
Hi! Is it normal for a girl to use sanitary pads all the time? Some sort of liquid or slime seeps out when I donāt have my period. Is this normal? I find it...
Why do the girls have an invisible penis?
Fertility rates in many Western countries are going down, and people are encouraged to have children earlier. If people donāt have sex before they get married...
Hi boyandgirl.info! Iām 19 and have some questions for you. Me and my boyfriend have been together for eight months now. Before we got together we talked about...
A friend has started teasing me quite a lot in the past few months, and it affects me a lot. I get quite down when he teases me and says nasty things, even...
Hi,Iām a girl of fifteen. Iām the type of young person who doesnāt want to try alcohol till theyāre eighteen, but none of my friends have the same attitude.
What does the Bible say about those who have had premarital sex?
Hello! I'm a 13-year-old girl and I've found out that when I have my period I am completely empty and mad at everyone and everything. I do not know what for,...
My father is often angry, works a lot and rolls his eyes when I say something at home. What can I do?
Is it completely wrong to think that several girls are pretty and could imagine having sex with them?
What differences are there between boy friendships and girl friendships?
Hi, Iām twelve years old,Iām looking forward to sex and have tried to finger my genitals and to touch my clitoris. Touching my clitoris went OK but it was...
Hi!This is nothing about a relationship, but as this is a Christian website, I thought I could ask you.Iāve recently got into metal music, particularly the...
Hello. I often find it difficult to generally talk or flirt with girls. Are there any good tips to make this less difficult?
Iāve written down some reasons for sex before marriage, could you write some answers or thoughts about what Iāve written?In Norway today the average age at...
My boyfriend does not want to pray out loud. He has a quiet way of expressing his faith. Is that okay?
Is it normal for a girl to bleed the first time she has intercourse?Is there something wrong if she doesnāt bleed?Is it sore the first time?From a girl, 14.
Hi. Me and my girlfriend are Christians. We love each other but havenāt seen each other for over 6 months, as we live a long way apart. One time she sent me a...
Is it wrong to think about kissing and cuddling another person, the same way it is wrong to lust after sex with someone before marriage?
Hi,Iām a girl of seventeen who (together with my boyfriend) decided to split up a few months ago. I regret the decision now, as Iām starting to like him more...
Does Christianity accept homosexuality?From a girl of fifteen.
I feel like Iāve made a mistake. It started when I visited a chat website where I chatted with a guy. He told me that he was turned on and he asked me to send...
Hello :) I'm a 14-year-old girl :) and every now and then, I lie down and imagine that I'm having sex with a boy. When I do, I get a good feeling, and I get...
Hi,This week I was caught smoking by someone I know. She says I have to tell my parents that I smoke, but I donāt know what to say.
Hi guys! I really need some advice.Thereās a guy whoās interested in me, and I must admit Iām interested in him too. Iām 27 and have never been in a...
Hi! Iām a 16-year-old guy, and Iām writing because I find it hard to really get to know people. Iāve got a lot of friends at church, but they are mostly just...
Hello. I wonder if someone based on the Bible can say something about oral sex/experimenting sexually within marriage?
Hi, Iām a girl of 15. About six months ago I lacked a lot of iron, and at the same time I got a virus in my lungs which wasnāt dangerous, according to the...
What are healthy boundaries in a relationship? (For someone who is soon engaged and married) What is lawful and what is good in God's eyes?
Uh, hi. Just wondering about Panfilia. It's not quite the same as bisexuality? I guess when you're a panphile, you're attracted to personality and stuff...
Hi š how can I improve my self-image?
Hi!Iām a girl of fourteen and I have already decided not to have sex before I get married. But I was wondering if people bleed a lot when they have sex for the...
Is it safe to suck or lick when you only have one partner?
How can I forgive myself?
Iām really in love with a girl, she also likes me but weāre both quite shy.We would like to do something together but weāre not sure if it should be only us...
Hello. Iām āBoy 19ā and I have some questions. My girlfriend and I are both Christians, and we have decided to wait to have sex. Often if my penis gets hard, I...
Iām really addicted to porn, how can I manage to quit and how can I stop thinking about girls sexually? Iām a Christian.
Hi, Iāve got a real problem. My ex boyfriend and I broke up just over four months ago. After that I started a new job, and now Iāve fallen in love again.I...
Hi,Ā Iām in love with a girl, but she lives at a college far away. I really miss her, but I donāt know what I should do. She knows that I miss her.
Hi! Recently Iāve felt a real need to get a boyfriend. Iāve never had a boyfriend before, and Iāve never really longed for one, but now Iām thinking about it...
Hi, I'm a girl of seventeen, and I donāt have breasts! IĀ reallyĀ donāt have any! This is extremely embarrassing for me!Is there any way to get bigger boobs? Any...
Whatās the age limit for sex?
What is lust? It says in the Bible that you shouldnāt think about anyone with lust, because thatās the same as committing adultery in your heart. But what does...
What are the boundaries for what we call āsexā?
Hi, Me and my girlfriend have decided to wait before we have sex. But is it wrong to talk about sex and how much we look forward to it? From a guy of eighteen.
Hi. I'm a 21-year-old boy who is a Christian. I had a serious relationship a while back with a non-Christian girl, where I was tempted to have sex several...
Iām in a dilemma! A lot of Christian youths want to wait until theyāre married to have sex. They know what they want, and so they donāt need contraception when...
Hi! Iām 23 and still a virgin. Iām the only one among my girl friends who is a virgin, and itās beginning to get to me. Itās embarrassing, I feel so different...
Is it OK to have anal sex before marriage?
Hi, I'm a girl who isn't usually shy, but when it comes to this, I hardly dare be my real self for anyone, only a few that I have had to be honest with. I am...
Hi, I'm a guy who has a friend (a girl) who sometimes has suicidal thoughts. There are several reasons for these. I need some advice on how to help her. She...
Hi! I'm getting married soon, but I've got a few worries buzzing round in my head. I'm scared he mightn't like my looks. We're both Christians and have the...
I like to watch girls having sex. Does that make me a lesbian? Boys do not arouse me, and I often dream about how the girls in my class look naked.
Hello! I have struggled with addiction to masturbation and pornography for several years now. I have never dared to tell anyone and feel incredibly ashamed and...
Is it a sin to masturbate?Iām a Christian girl of twelve. Iām a real Christian, not just one who goes to church at Christmas.Iām not sure but I think that...
Hi! Iām part of a group of friends at school who stand by each other through thick and thin. Someone else is interested in joining our group, and thatās fine by...
How can I get to know myself and my body without it being sin? Iām wondering about things like who I like and who Iām attracted to and stuff like that.
Sometimes someone wants to show me porn. Iām a Christian and donāt want to look at porn, what can I do?
Hi, I like a boy. The problem is that he is a member of another denomination where they arenāt āallowedā to be in a relationship with people other than those...
Hi, I have a friend whoās in love with a nineteen-year-old boy. (Sheās fourteen.) Is this normal?
I know some people who are very young, but they are married. Is there any limit to what age you have to be to get married?
How can I cope with loneliness? Iāve moved a lot during my life, and Iāve never had a really good friend who Iāve grown up with. Iāve moved a lot from country...
When is it normal to start having sex?
Hello, we are two friends who have a bit of a problem... Two of our best friends (a boy and a girl) who are not boy and girlfriend showing their genitals on...
Hi! I like your website!Iām a single guy, 21 years old. I really love God and want to follow Him with all my heart. In my social circles (Christian) there are...
Iām a girl of fifteen and my boyfriend is also fifteen. He isnāt a Christian, and I find this very sad and difficult. He asks me a lot about my faith and...
Hi, what does God say about anal sex?
Hi :) My wife and I would like children, but it seems difficult. What does the Bible say about getting pregnant using a test tube? Is this meddling with his...
I have such low self-esteem, what can I do about it? Girl, 15
Hi, Iām a girl of 16. I like a boy whoās 17. I got to know him because I like him. What can I do to get to know him better? Weāve talked a little, but I want...
What happens to your body after an abortion?
Hi, do I have to confess that Iāve fantasised about sex to other Christians, or is it enough to ask God for forgiveness?
Hello. I have cut myself, and have a difficult relationship with food. I think I am developing anorexia. I am getting help, so it's actually going well...
Hello!I have a boyfriend I met online, who's in the USA. I am very fond of him and we have been together for 8 months. All the same we have never met, only...
Hi, a friend of mine (who isnāt a Christian), who has sex with her boyfriend, recommended me to use a dildo in order for me to have better sex the first time.
Hi, Iāve got a great friend who I really like, and have started to wonder if we should start to date. A lot of people have asked if we are dating, or are in...
Hi, Iām a girl, soon fifteen, and Iāve got a question!Iām a Christian girl and I like to talk about God and the Bible, but I have one problem, my family is...
Is it okay to have sex when you are a Christian, 15 years old and your girl/boyfriend has touched your breasts?
Hi! Where should the boundaries be in a relationship? It would be nice to be served some direct boundaries. Is it okay to lie in bed and cuddle? This was not an...
Is it OK for a guy and a girl to lie together during the day, for example after dinner?
Iām so frustrated as thereās someone in 10th grade who I really like! I talked to him a lot the first time I met him at school, and he was so kind and funny...
Girl 20 yearsMy best friend just got engaged and it makes me feel so alone. Because I just realize more and more that her children will probably be like 10...
Hi. I am unsure whether I have been raped or not. I was at a party, and had drunk a bit. I started kissing a guy, and he took me outside. He pulled my trousers...
Hi I'm a Christian girl of 13. For a long time now I've struggled with looking at sex and that kind of thing. Sometimes I manage to keep away from it for a...
Hi :) I have been thinking a bit about Matt 5:28, about lust. I read an article about this on āitroā, it said that there was a difference between lust and...
Hi,This might be a bit of an awkward question, but I want to know if itās OK to date when youāre twelve? Everyone else in my class has dated, apart from me.
If my mum has small breasts will I have the same?
Hi,My friend keeps saying she is a Satanist, and everyone in the class calls her a Satanist. I donāt know what to do! I donāt think she realises how stupid it...
Hello. I need some help. Me and my ex broke up about 4 months ago. He's a year older and is in high school now. I still go to the school we both went to. We...
Hello! We are two Christian mates and good friends and we are 15 years old. We have had oral sex or sucked each other as it is also called! Is this a sin??
Hi. Iāve done a lot of bad things recently. I havenāt done things against other people, but against God. Iāve asked Him to forgive me, and I know He does. The...
Hello! I'm in a phase in my life where I think: "When I get married and can FINALLY have sex, then I will be happy". I have managed to trick myself into...
Iāve got a great girlfriend, but I donāt have much confidence in myself and donāt dare to go any further in the relationship. What can I do?
Hi, Iām in a depression after my mum died. Am I having delusions?
Hello! I am a 16-year-old girl, and am a diligent Snapchat user. I'm wondering if it's sinful to send "provocative" pictures of yourself to a boy. Both are...
Hi, Iām a boy, Iām soon 15, and Iām wondering how and where I will find the right girlfriend. I donāt want Miss Universe, I just want an honest, kind girl. Iāve...
Hello! I wonder what you think about me talking to my girlfriend about my getting an erection. It can be difficult to hide when you are close up, and I wonder...
Iāve been really moved by a recent campaign against child marriage. What do you think about child marriage? Was it normal in Bible times? I think itās terrible...
How old do you have to be to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend?
Hi, I donāt actually have a question, but I just need to unburden myself and find out what you think. Iām in love for the first time. Iām 22 and in love for the...
Iāve been thinking about someone for five years. Iām sexually attracted to him, but he is in a relationship. Is this OK or is it wrong?
Hi! Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year. I often get irritated and annoyed as he behaves a bit strangely sometimes. For example, one...
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